MISS KEMI

This is a blog about discovering myself, and reminding myself to be me. I welcome anyone willing to join this crazy ride, and I assure you I will be sending love and blessings along your way! Peace!!!!
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dontletthemcallyouskinny:

I was tagged by misskemi to post 5 selfies Her’s were of her natural hair but my hair is relaxed, so here are 5 selfies of my relaxed hair being awesome and a bonus one with my mom cause she’s so cute! 

I’m going to tag my top three tumblr crushes fithickness, belleetnoir, and gainweightgetfit and everybody else! :)

Awesome!

alexandraelle:

my biggest fan.

radicalrebellion:

feministcaptainmorgan:

baronsledjoys:

firecannotkillafitblr:

This drives me mad. I used to work in a bookstore, and was talking to my coworker and he just yelled out “stop flirting with me!” at this ridiculous volume and it was humiliating because
1. I wasn’t
2. I got in trouble for acting unprofessional
3. He embarrassed me in front of a line of people
4. And he only stopped insisting that I was flirting when my boyfriend (who is now my husband) said, “dude, trust me, she’s not flirting with you” to him

That asshole respected my BOYFRIEND saying I wasn’t flirting more than he respected me saying it and I was the one who was talking! The whole scene got me in trouble at work. And the most ridiculous part is we were talking about a fucking book. In a bookstore.

One time, my ex boyfriend had a crush on some girl, and said that he thought he might have “a chance” with her.

When I asked him what made him think that, he said “Well, she talks to me.”

And this is why it is so difficult to be a girl and be friends with men who are attracted to women.

Can we also add that this is why a lot of women do the resting bitch face when out in public. Cause dudes swear a glance or a smile is flirting.

(Source: girlcodeonmtv, via lilbassface)

lilbassface:

misskemi:

I got tagged by lilbassface . Being natural is amazing! I love playing in my soft hair and wearing different styles! I can fluff it into an Afro, where a wash n go, braid it, twist it, straighten it, just do whatever. So here are my five selfies and I tag 0nly1bisi agirlwhowalkstheworld river-temz dontletthemcallyouskinny and everyone else you don’t have to have natural hair just post your selfies!

Absolutely stunning darling!!!

Thank you! You are too, thanks for tagging me!

I got tagged by lilbassface . Being natural is amazing! I love playing in my soft hair and wearing different styles! I can fluff it into an Afro, where a wash n go, braid it, twist it, straighten it, just do whatever. So here are my five selfies and I tag 0nly1bisi agirlwhowalkstheworld river-temz dontletthemcallyouskinny and everyone else you don’t have to have natural hair just post your selfies!

huffingtonpost:

HERE’S JUST HOW MUCH IT PAYS TO BE CONVENTIONALLY ATTRACTIVE

We’ve come to expect impossible, even improbable standards of beauty to populate our magazines and our television shows. It’s another thing entirely to find they’ve invaded our workplace.

Watch Vox’s full video to see the many other ways these unrealistic beauty standards effect where we work.

(Source: vox.com, via 0nly1bisi)

cashmerethoughtsss:

We don’t need to replace our history with myths to validate ourselves and our cultures. Keep it real.

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(via thatnigeriankid)